Making Valuable LinkedIn Connections

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It is pretty common knowledge that LinkedIn is an extremely effective social media channel for professional connections and interactions. The question is not about LinkedIn itself. The question is about which people who have invited you to connect with them are the right people for you.

How to figure it out

As usual, it will come down to quality versus quantity. If 500 people online invite you to connect with them, you need to ask yourself if it is worth sacrificing quality for quantity. If you think that “collecting” as many LinkedIn connections as you possibly can will allow you to have a stronger position in LinkedIn and that your web presence will be stronger because of it, you are probably incorrect. The only way that those 500 connections are all worth having on LinkedIn is if you truly have a solid, mutually beneficial relationship with each and every one of them and the likelihood of that being the case is extremely slim.

Stick with your strategy

Your strategy acts as your roadmap. Initially, you spent a great deal of time, thought, and effort making your online social media strategy into what it needs to be to help you and your business to succeed. Why would you abandon that strategy after putting so much effort into it? The answer is that you should not abandon it. It is a valuable tool that will help you to get your business to where you want it to be. Part of what you will be doing in that situation is building credibility, boosting your business’s reputation, and positioning yourself as a subject matter expert. They are all worthy exercises and they will pay off in the end. There are several ways that you can build your credibility, such as:

  • Positioning yourself and your business properly online.
  • Using the strongest, most effective keywords to support what you represent and to highlight your expertise.
  • Identifying your target audience and taking solid steps to interact with them.
  • Figuring out how much time and effort you should be devoting to your activity on LinkedIn. It is important to be consistent, persistent, and committed to your LinkedIn activities.

Deciding on whom to accept and whom to reject on LinkedIn

Undoubtedly, the more you share your content online, the greater number of people who will reach out to you and try to connect with you. As flattering as that may seem, that doesn’t mean that it is appropriate to say yes to every one of those people. You should proceed cautiously.  There are several criteria that you can use when deciding which people to accept and which people to reject on LinkedIn. You should accept the person if

  • You know the person on a personal basis. That means that some level of trust exists between you and you would like to take the relationship to the next level.

  • You have never actually interacted with the person but you feel that you and the other person would benefit from having a relationship through LinkedIn. You will be able to get a fairly good sense of the person by reviewing his or her profile carefully.

  • You have a feeling that the person is worth networking (online and in person) on an ongoing basis. You should get some sense of mutual benefit before you move forward with any kind of relationship with that person.

On the other hand, there are many people who will invite you to connect with them on LinkedIn and you should think long and hard about whether you should accept them. In many cases, the answer will be “no.” Some of those reasons are:

  • You are acquainted with the person but you remember a negative experience that you had with him or her and you don’t trust that person. If you allow the person to connect with you on LinkedIn, you are giving him or her access to all of your other connections.

  • You don’t see anything that you and the other person have in common. You will not be able to share a mutually beneficial relationship.

  • You feel that the only reason that the person is trying to connect with you is for your other connections.

  • The person didn’t bother to complete his or her LinkedIn profile. There is no photo, no real details, etc. This may mean that the person is not genuinely interested in connecting with you. They may be spamming you.

Conclusion

LinkedIn is an extremely valuable, professionally sound social media channel and it behooves you to make it as effective and as brilliant as you possibly can so that it helps you to get to the next level professionally. You must make sure to protect your LinkedIn connections and think long and hard before you accept invitations to connect with other people online. As important as all of that is, it is also important to remember to treat people who have invited you to connect with them with respect and courtesy whether you accept or reject their invitation. It is not always as simple as knowing or not knowing the person before you agree to accept his or her invitation. However, before you do connect, make sure that you have good reasons for doing so.

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  • Michael Cohn

    Michael Cohn is the founder and Chief Technology Officer (CTO) of CompuKol Communications. He has decades of experience in IT and web technologies. Michael founded CompuKol Communications to help small businesses and entrepreneurs increase their visibility and reputation. CompuKol consults, creates, and implements communication strategies for small businesses to monopolize their markets with a unique business voice, vision, and visibility. Mr. Cohn earned a Master’s degree in project management from George Washington University in Washington, DC; and a Master’s degree in computer science and a Bachelor of Science degree in electrical engineering from Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, NJ.

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4 Responses

  1. Jean L. Serio says:

    Via LinkedIn Groups
    Group: Social Media Consulting
    Discussion: What is Your Strategy for Establishing Valuable Connections on LinkedIn?

    Great article with lots of important suggestions. I never accept invites from people with no photo, no Profile, or the profile isn’t expanded upon – unless it’s someone I know well. I also take into consideration the expertise an individual has and whether it will be of value of my connections.
    By Jean L. Serio, CPC

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  2. Kevin Marlin says:

    Via LinkedIn Groups
    Group: Writum
    Discussion: What is Your Strategy for Establishing Valuable Connections on LinkedIn?

    Most of my contacts flow in the same circles I do. Many I know personally, have done work for, have worked with or have a shared interest with. Some are local to my region and we connect as we may find need for each others services.

    When I get a contact request I ask a few questions:

    1. How can this relationship be mutually beneficial?
    2. Is this person a contact whore? Do they choose who they make contacts with for a reason or is it like a FB thing to them. I am not the type to simply accept invites up front. I want to know who I am dealing with. Here are two messages I sent in reply to FB friend requests recently:

    Who are you and why have you sent me a friend request? If you are a game player then I must tell you that I do not play games.

    If you are an exhibitionist that is looking to pimp selfies all over the world you really do not need to be my friend either.

    If you are neither of those I will accept your friend request.

    Kevin Marlin

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    What? You have nothing about yourself in the about area. I do not play games any longer. If you are a conservative person and are interested in sharing and reading I will accept your invite but if you are only a selfie poster forget it.

    As far as sending invites I am pretty much the same way. if I would not accept my invite then I will not send it.

    The biggest thing I see are connection whores. Remember potential employers may look at these things and too many contacts can be a bad thing.
    By Kevin Marlin

  3. Jean L. Serio says:

    Via LinkedIn Groups
    Group: Social Media Marketing and Measurement
    Discussion: What is Your Strategy for Establishing Valuable Connections on LinkedIn?

    Thanks for this excellent article, Michael. Lots of important suggestions. I never accept invites from people with no photo, no Profile, or the profile isn’t expanded upon – unless it’s someone I know well. I also take into consideration the expertise an individual has and whether it will be of value of my connections.
    By Jean L. Serio, CPC

  4. Jakob Thusgaard says:

    Via LinkedIn Groups
    Group: Business Development – The Missing Link between Marketing & Sales
    Discussion: What is Your Strategy for Establishing Valuable Connections on LinkedIn?

    …and this avoid connecting with people you’ve never spoken to. It never ceases to amaze me how many people think that connecting with a total stranger, you’ve never spoken to, has value!
    By Jakob Thusgaard